Perfect Eggnog

"I didn’t grow up drinking eggnog but it was a staple in my husband’s home as a kid. I actually never tasted eggnog until I met my husband 5 years ago. My husband would tell me countless stories how as kids he and his sister Kia drank up as much virgin-eggnog as they could. I didn’t even know that eggnog was a “spiked” drink until well into my adult years. So this recipe is heavily spiked; feel free to increase the rum and bourbon to your heart’s delight, or omit altogether if it’s for the kids."